What can we give to children?

The net friend mentions in messages for me she goes to Nanjing to look after the child, say the child is unwilling to do the homework, everybody proposes attacking severely unanimously. Can not bear as mother's her. Because of the restriction of the condition, she can't stay at child's side all the time. In to see take the picture, living and going to school aunt child. She can only look after the child once on 10 and a half days month.

Therefore, I think: What can we the parentses give to children?

Property and education?

We of today are all busy, working hard and rushing about for life every day. Perhaps want to create more wealth, perhaps it is for life, because we live, must eat and drink and play spreading, must be busy ceaselessly for clothing,food,lodging and transportion.

Say that risks one's life being busy for the child's tomorrow, a little remote eventually, because the child's tomorrow will be really very far, we are really unable to expect the future sometimes. But we do not really only live for oneself. We not merely think over the living condition of the child's tomorrow, the more important thing is to make due efforts for child's today's education.

Except we let the child eat one's fill and wear warm clothes, I think: We will pay close attention to the child's soul.

Give children ice-cold fists or gentle comfort, give children countless blame or give children the appraisal just right? Give children detailed and gentle and cordial words or rant and rave for children?

We should sit down and think it over silently.

About lower parts of the body squat to look after the child. If you want to really enter into the child's heart, we should curve the lower waist first, even go to look up at the child, take them to play, talk about the topic that they are interested in with them. Spend some time exchanging with the child, listen to them to a lot of views and ideas of thing, can do the thing that they are interested in with them. Don't say I am very busy, I have no time to look after children at all. If you want to educate one's own child well, ask you to spare a little time to your child, because they are in dire need of parents' love and care.

Give to a warm and sound family of child. Should not speak and divorce such a wording easily. Don't often quarrel in front of child. The child of today all have a fragile soul. Because we can't provide a better living environment for child. A lot of bad phenomena have already corroded the child's soul in the society, they have no crime, it is really that we can not provide more beautiful and more happy and more auspicious and cleaner living environment for them. We should think about more why they become this sample of today while criticizing and making mistakes the child. Having taught for many years, having contacted the children of a lot of broken homes, their childhood is nearly all very unhappy. Sensitive, selfish, narrow, suspicious, easy to be wounded, fragile, it looks to be often the expression not cared about in the least, but they consider anything much more sensitively much than the peer, and are mostly introversive, have words say, will give vent to, let people difficult expression own detestation in a manner to accept with some. They easy to go to extremes, not only will since cruel, will injure get others, because they had history that injure. Such a child educate fine, get on society quiet member. Really, our child needs a warm home environment, need common love of two people of parents. It is not complete to be short of either party, the development of child's right personality is very unfavorable. So dear Papa and Mama, learn to love your child. Because the child is your future and hope.

Use open education to the children as much as possible. Don't take more chains for children since childhood. Read into a bookworm and can not become a scholar and can not do even a common laborer well. Because their ability is congenital and has already been consumed much more. They may have adapted to reading the strange circle of the book very much. The bright and beautiful sunshine outside the window is very strange sometimes for them. A lot of boss that can get rich now heavy to read a lot of book, because their energy press, shed no. Ones that are certainly engaged in most advanced branches of science and the elite is still top intellectuals after all, but so long as our child is diligent. The mark going to care about the child that don't be too many, he will probably take an exam of the first place this time, will take an exam of the 25th place next time. Perhaps do in the test not well this time too, can take an exam of the top several too tomorrow. Because children of today are all very clever, their plasticity is very great. Certainly when moulding the child we don't forget to neglect the natural instincts of respecting the child. One grass have one green, one more than flower have one flower in riotous profusion, they are a life style each. The child with natural instincts will be more beautiful. The child with the distinction can make people love even more. We should pay attention to developing the child's individual character when training children to be easy to get used to. Respect the child's natural instincts even more.

What can we give to children on earth? Topic that we think deeply that very worth. We should find out what the child needs at first.

Perhaps we can pass through the family property for child ten thousand tomorrow, but we of today can only give children the best education.

A sentence of warm words, the book which a child would like reading, an expression in one's eyes encouraged, a letter which encourages the child, a weekend staying together with the child, a warm family atmosphere, and the strong care that the father love mother love adds up, one forgives all of children and likes the heart of the big philharmonic love of anger the most importantly.

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